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When I move to a new town, I spend many hours driving with the intention of getting lost. Finding my way home again helps me understand better than studying a map. I also find the places I want to go back to - restaurants to try, parks to explore, stores to visit. I am creating the map of my new life in a new place.
I have lived in Columbus for more than 10 years (and less than 20). I've moved away and come back more than once. Each return strengthened some belief that I already knew all there was to know about Columbus and its neighborhoods. And with each return, I explored less and less.
Parenting changes lives. For the purposes of this post, having babies changed mine in two ways.
I am a list maker. Being the nerd that I am, I started making a complicated Excel spreadsheet with activities, possible field trip destinations and their hours and prices, and local festivals. I got used to scouring local websites, reading corkboard announcements and finding people that were more in the know that I was. Correction: Than I am.
That list saved lives.
And making that list made me realize that there is so much I don't know about Columbus. And while I no longer drive around trying to get lost, I am actively seeking out new experiences in this place I have known for so long.
I feel like I am creating a map of my new life in an old place.
A new list has been brewing in my head. It's time to put it out there. A throwing of the gauntlet, if you will.
My list of "never before but will soon"s in Columbus:
Food and drink
Everything else
I'll be making this list my home page so that I am reminded that I have yet to see and do it all.
What is on your list?